using this post as an easy place to put a message I’m sending to a friend, ideally I’ll have retooled this by the time anyone who is not Jess sees this but who knows
OK, getting back to you before I go to bed, apologies for the delay! So I think broadly for weekday evening get-togethers, I think they tend to be made of one or more of the following components:
this is for the 2025 UChicago Scav Hunt, specifically item
- Your wife left you? Pathfinder fixes this. [2e points for showing us how]
If your wife left you IRL, Pathfinder lets you work through your emotions through roleplay, helps you build social skills, find new friends or even a new wife. Tabletop RPGs with a good group can be a great asset to your social and personal life, as can many things, the most important part is that putting yourself out there and letting yourself be vulnerable is important to grow and change into someone more capable of fostering a healthy relationship.
Here’s a list of the games I have, it should be more or less accurate.
Last updated: 2025-05-04
Hello!
If you’re here, it’s probably because I sent you here because I wanted to hang out with you at some point and it was useful to have a reusable list of stuff I like doing.
I’ll chat over text for a bit if it makes you more comfortable, but generally I’m more comfortable talking with my voice than I am over text, so I’m happy to jump into making plans quickly, or we can schedule a call if you don’t want to meet up IRL before significant conversation.
TL;DR of the game:
In Jet Lag’s Hide And Seek Transit Game , 2-4 players/teams take turns being a Hider, hiding various places in Chicago, and a Seeker, looking for them. The longest time you stay hidden wins.
Slightly more details:
Everyone gets together in the same place. One player/team then takes an hour to hide somewhere publically accessible in Chicago, using a subset of Chicago’s transit system to get there. They will be in a “hiding zone” a quarter mile in radius, centered on a transit stop. The hider’s goal is to stay hidden for as long as possible. Everyone will get a chance to be the hider over the course of the game.